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I fall in love - Indeed you get blind, but don't let your dreams gets ignored (for boys).

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      When I was 14 I  just started focusing to be a successful social scientist for which  I gave up everything to build it like giving up comfort zone, bearing family attitude, ignoring the comments of relatives and moreover keeping myself away from girls. I have been around the world and saw many girls but one thing was only in my mind career become something to prove myself and now Alhamdulillah I have many things I never thought of, but still my dream of doing a Ph.D. and becoming a renowned social scientist. I heard that love is blind so at this time of the career I don’t want to be blind I want to enjoy all the achievements and want to see them with my eyes.      The life is uncertain everything does not work accurately as you think of it or plan for it sometime, its world with nature Vs Nurture. I am still in my career struggle with the prime focus for achievement. but actually that the day I got in some trouble of getting in one-si...

End blame game - own your acts, correct them and improve them.

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        Once in the class, we were discussing why as a nation we never developed? There was a statement which I heard from a classmate that the development has the biggest barrier of a blame game in Pakistan which never helps us to grow which is eventually right. For example, the recent government will discuss the faults of the previous governments and their policies, while going back home I was thinking about it and I linked it to the human personal life in which I reached a tentative conclusion of human behavior towards its development, it’s been damaged due to the practice of blaming the things, people, and scenarios.      Blaming is a really common practice and it means to attach your negative result of the activity on tangible or intangible things, it can be easily identified in society and casual practice in my view and with due sorry I have majorly seen that in Pakistan in my personal and professional life. If you are late from the office it is...

You Can Do It - Impossible is I M Possible, just keep doing efforts.

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Every day in our surrounding we find someone gives up his career, someone gets to end up with the relation, changes their life decision, getting unwilling to work on their plans, lack of interest in their lives and losing interest in their initiatives, change their academic fields rapidly, weak in academic performance and getting into bad habits. Society is having a vast diversification with regards to people in which their behaviors are really different from person to person and place to place in terms of norms and their social structure. People come every day to me from different backgrounds sharing ideas, their approaches and their life goals which make me motivated and give hope for the right direction of the youth towards their life. Later on, seeing them in a practical the arena they give up their self and going on some unknown way or the way dictated by someone else.       We can relate it to our lives where we thought to be and where we are today which makes ...

Own yourself, for yourself - Your dream or passion become true, but you have to focus yourself beside others.

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        I remember one of my classmates in school was too enthusiastic to become a painter and his paintings were awesome and he used to discuss with me the different painting styles and color combinations; I was actually a fan of his pencil sketches. After a long time, I met him somewhere in one of my lectures for the medical students ; he wanted to ignore me for any discussion while I tried to convince him for a cup of coffee somewhere for which somehow he got ready. Later on, in between the casual discussion, I asked him in an unsensational manner that why you left passion of painting and moved towards this medical field. “My friend painting cannot fill the stomach and I am not like the other renowned painter to have a gallery in Islamabad to earn good,” he replied. I took off from him with good wishes for each other and came to my hotel. It was the time I wasn’t able to understand because I was a bit shock for the time and even confused to solve the self-created ...

Connect with human, beside killers - Killers just not shed blood, but some shatter your dreams.

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  A lot of people I have seen in the surrounding are the victim of different kinds of humiliation abuse, bullying, harassment, etc. which impact their life and become an event which they cannot forget and lead their life just finish the given time. This is really important for all of us to stand against this victimization of humanity which is affecting the people’s lives mentally and physically both. The most important thing I have noted that something is happening around us and disturbing the others which impact their whole life. unfortunately, we do not consider that crime due to the socially corrupt attitude. I have seen a lot of cases in which I have found the killer kill the person and a person ends up with life which is a big crime ethically and in the context of the Abrahamic religions. There are some killers around us, their attempt on the human life impacts physically and mentally in which humans don’t die but they feel dead and their injuries cannot be seen but they have ...

Don't wait, work for it - Thinking only is a waste of time, work for your dreams.

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  I always used to ask myself that does dreaming is a bad thing? Does everything happens superstitiously? In society, where I live, people are caught in different socioeconomic problems that they eventually start enjoying life with leaving all the things on luck, their failures are based on luck, time and obviously the others because every wrong thing that happens to them is due to the actions of others and we are not having any fault in that or we never make a mistake. It is really common to find out in our society that we rely on the decision of others, we wait for the help of others, we wait for   others to create the opportunities for us and the most painful for me is that we wait for someone to help in achieving our dreams, I have seen a lot of dependencies here. In our educational period where different people sit in the same class, we have the same teacher to study, same kind of projects, assignments, opportunities to learn and we get the same date for an exam in whic...

Change to Change - You have to change yourself to get a change for yourself.

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  Most of our social life goes on the discussion in my experience, either in friends, family, office, etc. anywhere we sit we have a discussion on the different scenarios of the society i.e. politics, social, economic and individuals in which we discuss them in different matters. Might you have observed that in these days our country is cheering up with the slogan of change, the recent government of Pakistan Tehreek E Insaf manifesto was based on the change in society and make country prospering in terms of economic, social and political parameters? Ultimately as this government came we have seen people are discussing the thing that where is the change which could be discussed in detail by any political analyst. The point of the discussion I want to break in this is, for example when there is a debate going between the people, they point out the negative things from each other and both want the other person to correct his/her mistake beside their own. We see the accidental cases ...