Connect with human, beside killers - Killers just not shed blood, but some shatter your dreams.

 

A lot of people I have seen in the surrounding are the victim of different kinds of humiliation abuse, bullying, harassment, etc. which impact their life and become an event which they cannot forget and lead their life just finish the given time. This is really important for all of us to stand against this victimization of humanity which is affecting the people’s lives mentally and physically both. The most important thing I have noted that something is happening around us and disturbing the others which impact their whole life. unfortunately, we do not consider that crime due to the socially corrupt attitude. I have seen a lot of cases in which I have found the killer kill the person and a person ends up with life which is a big crime ethically and in the context of the Abrahamic religions. There are some killers around us, their attempt on the human life impacts physically and mentally in which humans don’t die but they feel dead and their injuries cannot be seen but they have to be felt sensually; they are the killer of the dreams.

Such killers could find out in our family, friend circle, class, office, etc. because we think that I am always right and the other person is always wrong, we can always think good but others cannot. “He is a kid he cannot do anything, she is a girl and she is weak, she is women and she needs to be in limits, he is worse in making decisions, he cannot do anything well, etc.” I have heard a lot on myself but with the grace of Allah, I got save from them which I will share at the end of this blog.

Why killing dreams?

Ever you think why we always try to degrade them when they are our children, siblings, family, relatives, friends, mates, and colleagues? What kind of satisfaction do we get to make another person down and make them feel that they can never thing good anyway? The biggest problem I have faced in my life is the demoralization of people and they never speak any kind of positive word for anything. Whenever I tried to make something and people came to know about it, they do take the negative aspects out of it in which I never found good words and appreciation for myself.

It is the biggest crime in my view when you kill the dreams of others for your self-satisfaction developed through your ego, illiteracy and narrow approach. It never means if you can drive others mad, the other person cannot; yes, they cannot do things like you but they do have different styles of doing it and can tackle it in a different way.  Everyone does one thing in a different way which should be appreciated like human writes but some from the left hand, I am left-handed and I do all of my work besides eating with the left hand. Once, I was writing the homework when my maternal uncle came into the room and said: "Write with the right hand” and still I write with left because of its natural gift from Allah and I never feel uncomfortable using it, while for me it was tough to use the right hand to write and do work. 

Human has their own dreams and they have their own comfort zone which ultimately requires to be understood by the other person. If someone likes black and other loves blue it means everyone loves colors and there is just a difference of choice but they both love colors. If human thinking is different from your perspective it never means they are wrong it means they are trying to make a different point in front of you and want to do something different from the conventional practices. Never tell people positive or negative but try to guide them about changing negativity into positivity.

We all are humans and we should respect each other but we leave this when it comes to the dreams of others, a difference of opinion and thoughts in which we try to pull out the idea and make them dead with their innovative approach. In this, all I will request you all is to become a genuine person besides a killer… a killer of dreams. Also, I would like to suggest if ever you want to discuss your dreams or ideas to discuss them with genuine people, besides the killers; who could support and help you to become an achiever in your life.