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5 Things can help you to change your life - Practice is Must.

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  On a daily basis, I receive emails and messages on social media from the much relatable people.   I receive messages with different wordings but the same problem. But why people are going through different scenarios but the same problem? It is because the circumstances in our lives are different but impact becomes the same which could be due to nature, norms, and social structures. The issues mostly get on nerves because of overthinking about it and taking its effect on their senses and ignoring the solutions. Nowadays, it is really common to listen about suicide in youth, depression in children, frustration, intolerance, failure stories, etc. The only solution to that all is to focus on the solutions and building your life the way you want to have.     I have observed some of the skills which are important to adopt to change your life, it matters a lot to change your life but before that, you have to realize that you need to change yourself. Here, I am mentionin...

You Can Do It - Impossible is I M Possible, just keep doing efforts.

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Every day in our surrounding we find someone gives up his career, someone gets to end up with the relation, changes their life decision, getting unwilling to work on their plans, lack of interest in their lives and losing interest in their initiatives, change their academic fields rapidly, weak in academic performance and getting into bad habits. Society is having a vast diversification with regards to people in which their behaviors are really different from person to person and place to place in terms of norms and their social structure. People come every day to me from different backgrounds sharing ideas, their approaches and their life goals which make me motivated and give hope for the right direction of the youth towards their life. Later on, seeing them in a practical the arena they give up their self and going on some unknown way or the way dictated by someone else.       We can relate it to our lives where we thought to be and where we are today which makes ...

Own yourself, for yourself - Your dream or passion become true, but you have to focus yourself beside others.

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        I remember one of my classmates in school was too enthusiastic to become a painter and his paintings were awesome and he used to discuss with me the different painting styles and color combinations; I was actually a fan of his pencil sketches. After a long time, I met him somewhere in one of my lectures for the medical students ; he wanted to ignore me for any discussion while I tried to convince him for a cup of coffee somewhere for which somehow he got ready. Later on, in between the casual discussion, I asked him in an unsensational manner that why you left passion of painting and moved towards this medical field. “My friend painting cannot fill the stomach and I am not like the other renowned painter to have a gallery in Islamabad to earn good,” he replied. I took off from him with good wishes for each other and came to my hotel. It was the time I wasn’t able to understand because I was a bit shock for the time and even confused to solve the self-created ...

Nothing is right till you don't make it right - Your decision, needs your self satisfaction.

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     It’s about when my book “Choose Your Subject” was published; a great ceremony was organized by Believers Life Skills Trust in which I got a question from one of the students after I briefed about my book to the audience. It was literally relatable and I guess it would be relatable with you guys too. The question was “How we know to make the things right when everyone is saying that we are going on the wrong way?” I replied to him that “Nothing in the world goes in a good manner till you don’t think of it in a positive way, and nothing helps you till you don’t work on it passionately.” Later on, when my teacher and mentor Mr. Muhammad Akram, Director PGC, came on the stage and he quoted Muhammad Ali Jinnah (RA) that “I never take the right decision, I make my decision right,” which was also regarding the same question.                                           ...