Don't wait, work for it - Thinking only is a waste of time, work for your dreams.

 

I always used to ask myself that does dreaming is a bad thing? Does everything happens superstitiously? In society, where I live, people are caught in different socioeconomic problems that they eventually start enjoying life with leaving all the things on luck, their failures are based on luck, time and obviously the others because every wrong thing that happens to them is due to the actions of others and we are not having any fault in that or we never make a mistake. It is really common to find out in our society that we rely on the decision of others, we wait for the help of others, we wait for  others to create the opportunities for us and the most painful for me is that we wait for someone to help in achieving our dreams, I have seen a lot of dependencies here.

In our educational period where different people sit in the same class, we have the same teacher to study, same kind of projects, assignments, opportunities to learn and we get the same date for an exam in which some dependency scenarios are like; waiting for someone to teach us, looking around in the exam hall to get a clue about the answer and asking others to help you during the paper to get done with the questions. Same like in a professional life, we wait to get things done from the others besides making our efforts to get it done, even we don’t lift up the cup in the absence of the peon because we don’t feel to do that. When our things get worse we consider its bad luck and the nature consideration.

When we behave like this, as a human, with the irresponsible attitude it comes up with the negative outcomes which directly impacts upon our life. People, sometimes, feel I define human with the negativity but actually I define negativity adopted by human which impact severely on their personal and professional life.

Sometimes I have seen in my life whenever I wanted to do something I used to go to people and ask for their help. Most of the time, I have seen people just used to fill me up with the sweet talks and they never even took up my thing in a proper way. I expected a lot from the people that they will be going to do something for me but ultimately I got nothing besides wait for many days and wasting my minutes. To date, I have many things pending or I have lost the opportunities because I have waited for the people and I got disturbed from my track.

It is a bitter truth of the world that you are a motivation of yourself where no one is going to make a way for you till you don’t try to make it for you. If you are hungry and you make yourself dependent on your sister, wife or anyone else you have to wait for them and as per their requirement you have to eat it whatever they have cooked you have to go for it. Besides this, if you get to know the procedure of cooking you will be able to have it anytime and cook the thing as per your wish as much you want to.

Here, we all are waiting for someone to come and buck us up from the situation but it is really an optimistic scenario, you will see one day your parents will be tired of your dependency habit and likewise your siblings, friends, etc; they will try to ignore you in different ways. If you have something which you would like to get done for yourself, just work for it besides waiting for someone to help you in the situations.

Just stop waiting for the other, get yourself back to work to shift your dreams into reality. 


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