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I fall in love - Indeed you get blind, but don't let your dreams gets ignored (for boys).

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      When I was 14 I  just started focusing to be a successful social scientist for which  I gave up everything to build it like giving up comfort zone, bearing family attitude, ignoring the comments of relatives and moreover keeping myself away from girls. I have been around the world and saw many girls but one thing was only in my mind career become something to prove myself and now Alhamdulillah I have many things I never thought of, but still my dream of doing a Ph.D. and becoming a renowned social scientist. I heard that love is blind so at this time of the career I don’t want to be blind I want to enjoy all the achievements and want to see them with my eyes.      The life is uncertain everything does not work accurately as you think of it or plan for it sometime, its world with nature Vs Nurture. I am still in my career struggle with the prime focus for achievement. but actually that the day I got in some trouble of getting in one-sided love like everyone in their life face it

Omer and Alexander - Who is actually great? a historical performance base analysis.

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           The History of emperors, warriors can be found in thousands of books that are discussing their fights and they're brave role in conquering the areas, suppressing the other kingdoms either we find old-time writers or contemporary historical intellectuals. It is rarely found in the historian write-ups about the systems, governance, public relation, public the opinion of that time and their policies, also the attachment of emotions concerning religion or cultural linkages, we find personal influence and bias.      The rulers in the past, have tried to just gain power and land to make a name in the histories but some leaders are famous for their administrative procedures and pattern of justice which were called by the people to rule beside taking place by force in which the historic name of OMER IBN UL KHATTAB AL FAROOQ (RA) is on the top of the list and accepted by the world. But to date, we look the historians from the west especially define Alexander the great as a sym

Your Child is your future - The children don't understand what you say, they understand what you do.

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  Looking at the post-modern development aspects, we are getting rapid changes in the socio-economic structure and the requirements of the society. Within hours, you find something new as you scroll your news feed on social media or either on electronic media. It is really important to prepare our children for the competitive world structure to sustain their socio-economic growth. Let me share the story of a child whom I know became a famous professional management consultant. His childhood was in the madrassa where he was performing well but later on, when he shifted to the school, he was having the least interest in the physics to learn about the acceleration and to know what Meiosis and cell structure is? Why atom cannot be created or nor be destroyed but he was really good in the literature and arts subject where he used to perform well but considered as the weak student in the class. But later, in the age of nineteen, he became Director of the International Organization, he rece

End blame game - own your acts, correct them and improve them.

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        Once in the class, we were discussing why as a nation we never developed? There was a statement which I heard from a classmate that the development has the biggest barrier of a blame game in Pakistan which never helps us to grow which is eventually right. For example, the recent government will discuss the faults of the previous governments and their policies, while going back home I was thinking about it and I linked it to the human personal life in which I reached a tentative conclusion of human behavior towards its development, it’s been damaged due to the practice of blaming the things, people, and scenarios.      Blaming is a really common practice and it means to attach your negative result of the activity on tangible or intangible things, it can be easily identified in society and casual practice in my view and with due sorry I have majorly seen that in Pakistan in my personal and professional life. If you are late from the office it is due to everything like your child

5 Things can help you to change your life - Practice is Must.

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  On a daily basis, I receive emails and messages on social media from the much relatable people.   I receive messages with different wordings but the same problem. But why people are going through different scenarios but the same problem? It is because the circumstances in our lives are different but impact becomes the same which could be due to nature, norms, and social structures. The issues mostly get on nerves because of overthinking about it and taking its effect on their senses and ignoring the solutions. Nowadays, it is really common to listen about suicide in youth, depression in children, frustration, intolerance, failure stories, etc. The only solution to that all is to focus on the solutions and building your life the way you want to have.     I have observed some of the skills which are important to adopt to change your life, it matters a lot to change your life but before that, you have to realize that you need to change yourself. Here, I am mentioning six things which

You Can Do It - Impossible is I M Possible, just keep doing efforts.

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Every day in our surrounding we find someone gives up his career, someone gets to end up with the relation, changes their life decision, getting unwilling to work on their plans, lack of interest in their lives and losing interest in their initiatives, change their academic fields rapidly, weak in academic performance and getting into bad habits. Society is having a vast diversification with regards to people in which their behaviors are really different from person to person and place to place in terms of norms and their social structure. People come every day to me from different backgrounds sharing ideas, their approaches and their life goals which make me motivated and give hope for the right direction of the youth towards their life. Later on, seeing them in a practical the arena they give up their self and going on some unknown way or the way dictated by someone else.       We can relate it to our lives where we thought to be and where we are today which makes me remember with a