Your Child is your future - The children don't understand what you say, they understand what you do.

 

Looking at the post-modern development aspects, we are getting rapid changes in the socio-economic structure and the requirements of the society. Within hours, you find something new as you scroll your news feed on social media or either on electronic media. It is really important to prepare our children for the competitive world structure to sustain their socio-economic growth.

Let me share the story of a child whom I know became a famous professional management consultant. His childhood was in the madrassa where he was performing well but later on, when he shifted to the school, he was having the least interest in the physics to learn about the acceleration and to know what Meiosis and cell structure is? Why atom cannot be created or nor be destroyed but he was really good in the literature and arts subject where he used to perform well but considered as the weak student in the class. But later, in the age of nineteen, he became Director of the International Organization, he received President Award in 2014 for his services in the social sector, recognized as a youngest Social Scientist in Asia from Asian Social Science Council, Malaysia. Later on, at the age of twenty-two, he served as an Executive Consultant to Secretary-General United Nations General Assembly for Social development affairs.

It is the child who is writing this blog named as Saith Usama Chitrali and telling you that I received 613 marks in Matriculation and 602 marks in the Intermediate still Alhamdulillah (with the grace of Allah), I am growing sustainably in my life.

After writing a book Choose your Subject which got recognition in society and got appreciation from people of different parts of society. I receive calls from the students and even parents where even a child of six years is suffering from anxiety and depression. The main reason behind this is the pressure of the number game and comparison within family or surroundings. Your child can be nothing for everything but he/she is something for many things. Let them explore their ideas because they are enough creative beyond our expectations. If you want to see your child successfully let them be reputable besides affecting their repute because of the others.

As I worked as a recruiter for the corporate, education and government industries, the basic challenge today's students are facing like self-management, character ethics, interpersonal and intrapersonal skills. These are becoming the main source of hurdles in their professional development because people cannot observe the efficiency of the memory your child has, but they can tangibly observe the way they communicate with them.

There are the following things which you can do as a parent to support your child to become a resource for society and his sustainability.

Don’t be skeptical about them

As being skeptical, you all the time suppress your child and do not let them be enough confident to share something with you because they are down with the trust level and start doing things hidden which can motivate them to join such people which can use them in any kind of activity and you will be having no clue.

Talk with them to listen, besides to emphasize

Listen to your child as much you can, because they will never let you down and will try to share everything with you without a fear. Try to listen to their different situations even though you can guide them in a good manner, if they share about anything like emotions, fights, results and educational hardships so, listen to them. While listening doesn't focus what you have to answer, focus on how you have to answer the way their problem would get solved. 

Give them time

    Mostly the children and parents nowadays are having huge gaps in which some role of the technology is there, but our attention is diverted towards the professional race and money-oriented growth. You can purchase a car later on, but if your child got ruin you cannot purchase them from anywhere, while your car is not going to benefit for  whole life but a good child of yours will never let you die till the end of the world with his good character and prosper growth.

Education is a key success, not the numbers

    

Your child cannot be good at taking a good number in mathematics equations but if they are well enough to understand the daily base numeric needs, he is good enough to work in practical life. I don't say that their school doesn't matter it does where they learn about diversity, communicate with different people and developing harmony. But if they get low marks to try to discuss with them about their challenges and properly address them and also here I will say never let down their children in front of them.

Do not counter their mistakes, but identify improvements

     One last thing, do not count all the time to your child with the mistakes but ponder them towards the improvement they have to make. Identifying the mistakes and discussing them are never a solution but improvement discussion opens a gateway for the thoughtful process of organizing things.

 If you want to live forever in this life or afterlife, be concerned about your children. We are in your support.