Loosing Focus, Loosing yourself - A foundation of your success journey.

 

    There are many examples I have seen in my life that people from different people backgrounds with different stories, ultimately create their own stories in which some are worthy to improve your life and some are to get a precious lesson in your life. For example, we have seen people from small backgrounds with small opportunities become a tycoon which gives opportunities to others to build themselves and some are there which becomes the inspiration for the public but fell down due to different issues. Sometimes, I have seen in my family discussing different people; like a child of Barber from a village becomes a Doctor, a child of Soldier becomes a General and a person with weak socioeconomic background comes up with the status of a Diplomat. Likewise, you will see the strong families’ children getting homeless as different economic bubble burst comes to them, an educated person's child cannot achieve anything, and a special child of a family who does not get much attention gets the better status in society than normal people.

    Just I have experienced personally in my life that I had different phases with the different pressures of the family. I was the weakest kid among the siblings and overall in the family, you could say and my parents used to discuss my future with the others and they were deciding what is best for me. I never gave them attention and I was designing my own track in which I always used to listen "What will you get out of it?" As I started doing things voluntarily and they came up with the other arguments like "Work without pay, are you insane?" And then I came up with the opportunity in which I was getting paid in a small the amount they had another thing to say that "This much pay is given to a peon in my company" but I was going up and the time came I achieved something in my life that I could stand up with the dignity and get the respect in my family and surroundings in a good meaning but still, somewhere I listened "When you are going to get settled?" and soon Insha’Allah (with God grace) I will answer it with my struggle.

    I just realized in all of my life that a person should not lose focus towards his path of goals. Some people think that changing places actually links to the focus which is not so true. It is goals of life towards you have to focus and you should be committed to that because there is nothing left in your life if you lose your focus. Losing focus means that a person is in a life where he doesn’t know the direction of the living pattern, success, problems, issues, and dealing with the socioeconomic needs and necessities. Having focus is really important in your life to stream out your things in a proper manner.

    The foundation of the focus could develop; by orienting your life goal for which you want to live, but the goal should be in a way that it should never die with you. Goal orientation will help you to focus through having an outcome of your efforts and achievements cheering you up with time. The other thing which would really help you is to keeping yourself in a learning attitude to not give up yourself. Most people in our society measures aging with the numbers but it actually goes with the capacity of learning, as it starts decreasing you are moving towards aging. The last thing which I have felt helps a lot to focus on is to have a concern with your work and do not see others which will surely help you to be innovative, peaceful and going calm in your life.


Your life never goes the way you think, but it could go the way you want to take… 

                                                Just Focus. 


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