Let the others think too - respect the perceptions of the others.

In most of my educational period where I wanted to say it loudly that, 

"Please let me think too"

 because all the time where I have to write what is written on the board, I have to prepare for the exams same as its written in the book, I have to get ready the way others want too and I have to be careful with the good words for my parents because thinking different from the social perspective like becoming social scientist beside a conventional degree holder i.e. Engineer or doctor. Because, they all can think better for us beside us, which they think that we cannot think better for ourselves. When I go to the university where most of the teacher are holding notes in their hands (I am not saying about all of those, as I have some teachers in my list those arranged the course outline according to the student’s interest and a chance to boost their exposure theoretically and practically in the subject),

and they develop vague questions looking to those piece of a write up developed by someone under his surrounding understanding,  they do not try to  study about the class discussion before the class because what they know they consider it a final source of knowledge and do not have practical

exposure in hand to share properly because they are relying on the given things on the internet besides understanding the need of the students. It is observed normally when the students try to share their ideas and make some fruitful comments upon the lecture or make any disagreement, I personally experienced the teachers become a threat to your results and can make you ashamed anyway with the lame words.  

The main issue in the society which I understood is,  we do not respect the opinion of the others and make hard words upon their words if we can suppress them or if it is beyond our understanding we will consider it a fool thought, we neglect the feelings and understanding of the other person just to satisfy our thoughts, we care for personal respect but we forget about the self-respect of the other and the most major the thing which I have observed is that we always degrade others with the knowledge and consider our opinion superior. The common practice you see even when the students put any random foreign name to prove their point, they exist or not; they will surely accept our point without negating it. It is because of the psychological influence that the intellectuality is only can be seen in the west and the other reason is, we do not have a good grip on our subject. 

We have to understand that, every human is good enough to think good for their self and they can be intellectual as much you think of yourself. The foundation problem in the education system is that we try to influence their thinking besides boosting their thinking which is challenging their careers and professional growth because they are widely dependent upon the thought process of the others. 

   

To build this up we just have to focus upon the five things which we can practice in any manner just to support others thought and answer they're saying let me think too and support them to build their way and sustain their personal and professional life.

Enhance your listening Capacity 

    The biggest problem which we face nowadays everywhere you name it, it's about the people who do not listen to us. If you want yourself to become an impact creator for society it is really important to understand other people, which is only possible when you try to listen to them and their thoughts. Mostly we avoid listening to others because of their arrogant attitude, an unethical responsive attitude, and taking everything in fun. From here, your works get started because knowledge is not just to deliver but its a duty to transfer with the responsibility and we cannot do it by avoiding the perspective of the others. While you are listening to the others, try to forget what you know and listen to the moderative words either they are bad or good analytically because your answer should develop their understanding besides making them arrogant on their side. Knowledge is not to become a figure, but to figure out the problem and solve it. 

You can be right, but others can become right too

    We do have gone through the same things but we would have totally different experiences, someone living in the US as a brown will have different experiences while the other one would have different. Both are right on their end with the different exposure and visualizing the scenarios. Sometimes, I agree that people try to prove they're self-right with vague comments and logic. The best thing which you can do with them is to develop a question on their talk which helps them to understand your context. It is the best practice which we can observe from the intellectuals, whenever someone tried to debate with them and comes with the vague logic which they never tried to negate it. They always use to respect them, in imperceptible ways they use to ask a question on their thoughts and making a light debate to help them with the right perception. 

    In another way, people are having the right thing in their mind they are weak to make it understood or their way of talking is really annoying. Being wise it's not to become prominent people listen to us, but it is to revive the negative people towards positive thoughts and helping weak to become strong. If t

Never develop concrete thought on your thinking 

  We think as per our exposure if you observe your family where all siblings belong to the same biological father but have a different approach towards career, life priorities, goals, behavior, and attitude. In this life, no one can prove themself right until their life does not get ended. What you think might be correct or might be wrong, never try to consider it forever thing. For example, once you met a person and you get bad vibes from him, might you end up the terms for this reason. One day you receive a text in your blacklist from the same person for an invitation to dinner with the family, now what? it is proven that your thought for that person became wrong. Experiences get different for the same thing, place, and person. Be flexible for it. 

                                Unlearning behavior 

    unlearning behavior is the old Chinese civilization concept but in today's world we do need it much more than the ancient period, might be. The concept of unlearning behavior is that you know everything absolutely right but you don't know anything right. When you are somewhere discussing something anywhere, try to listen more and focus treat yourself like you are listening about the thing for the first time, this will helps to develop your learning skills and enhance your exposure capacity. 

Read as much as you can

    The more you go deep into reading, the more world becomes wide for you. As in my personal experience, I have seen that many changes come across you and a new chapter of life makes you feel comfortable and developing focus power to think about yourself and your life properly. The world becomes really broad fro you because reading gives you exposure to different opinions on one thing and gives you an understanding of exploring more in the subjects with deep exposure to the technical and development aspect. This will helps you to make it your passion and add valuable resources to your previous exposure and refreshing it with the new ideas. 

`Dear reader, life is indeed too short to live with bad habits, because you live for a short period but your good or bad image in society remains forever. Many people 5000 years ago still been remembered their names and social status with their bad and good deeds. Listening is something hard to do because we always try to make our self understood by the others and neglect the opinion of the others. As much you will try to pack out the thoughts of the next generation, as much you are going to be deceived by them to lead your legacy of the success and sustainable development related to different aspects. Let them think, the way they want to think. Let them do mistake to understand what is good for them and what is bad in actual for their life.